The Bachelor Finale

March 3, 2009

*SPOILER ALERTS*
Did that really just happen last night? Did he just...? He did didn't he! Can he really get away with choosing both girls!?

I will admit, by the end I was a Molly fan but I felt absolutely TERRIBLE for Melissa. I was floored, shocked, and close to freaking out.... the look on Molly's face during After the Finale Rose said it all...I think Molly should have danced around singing Beyonce's "If you like it than you should have put a ring on it!"

What on earth did you readers think!? Can you blame Jason? Who were you rooting for? Do you think it was Melissa's fault? And how completely awkward was that for the host!?

Are you still hurt and want to talk more about it? Seek further counseling here at Emily's blog. Don't forget to watch After the Finale Rose PART 2 tonight! I'm sure he'll ditch both girls and end up with Jillian by the end.
The Four J's said...

I too am shocked about what he did... what a crappy thing to do and be done to on national tv!!! I liked them both, but what Melissa was saying about him not fighting for their relationship was pretty sad.. they'd only been engaged 6 weeks!!! He probably could've tried. I really like Molly though!!!

Em and Ms said...

I liked them both, but I was rooting for Melissa. Mostly I think it was so bad for him to break up with her on national television. Melissa seemed completely shocked, whereas he made it seem like she knew it would be coming. Apparently not. I thought it was awesome how Melissa told him off! I couldn't blame her for being mad, when you're hurt like that you kind of want to hurt him back. After the shock was over for her in the limo she was really just hurt and sad.

Speaking of the host, I thought it was pretty funny when he was talking to just Molly and he could hardly contain his smile, since she obviously had no idea what had just happened.

I think really what it comes down to is it's a fake environment that they meet and date. I mean, come on, "fantasy dates?" How can you really know who someone is and if they'll work with you?

Thanks for letting me rant some more :)

Jesse and Michelle said...

I was a Melissa fan, but liked Molly too. My mom had actually heard a rumor that this would happen but we didn't believe it because we didn't think that Molly would take him back. I am just disappointed in him. I thought he was a better guy than this. He should've broken up with Melissa off of TV and then gone after Molly later not just minutes after a breakup. I hated how he kept saying that he has no regrets and that he was just following his heart. That is a lame excuse and he should of just come out and admitted that he was a jerk. And I totally agree with you that he will probably end up telling Molly that he can't stop thinking about Jillian.

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Marilyn said...

Ooh, last night's show got me boiling mad. I have so many feelings about the way it ended, so here I go...

-I think Jason didn't play the game smart, because he allowed himself to get too close to too many women...I mean he was kissing practically everyone. When you do that, you set yourself up for this exact situation, and it served as a reminder that we should keep intimacy sacred. It IS possible to fall in love with more than one person when you are making out (and more) with multiple people.

- I hated the way they did the show, it was tacky. If he wanted to end the relationship with Melissa, fine (see below), but it was horrible the way they brought Molly out and dropped that on her and then they started kissing...just moments after Melissa has left the stage!!!! TACKY!!!

- I thought Melissa handled the situation very well. She was right to be angry and I was so glad she told him to never call her, text her again, and to just leave her alone. Smart girl. And I thought everything she said in the limo was very wise...the parts about being in the situation and not being able to see what it is you are supposed to learn from it, but realizing that someday she would know what lesson was to be learned...very wise.

- If I were Molly I would never be able to trust a guy like Jason...he obviously doesn't know WHAT he wants. If he does this to Melissa, he is capable of doing it to Molly.

Those are just a FEW of my thoughts...thanks for letting me rant.

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